I Love Little Pussy
Mamacita says: People with tiny, limited vocabularies scare me.
I am positive that these are the people who melt down in public and starting stabbing everyone within reach.
It’s a fact that the person who throws the first punch generally has a smaller vocabulary than his/her victim. People with small vocabularies have trouble understanding basic conversation. People with small vocabularies often don’t have enough words to communicate their thoughts, or understand other people’s conversations. Picture a toddler trying to communicate – a tiny child with not enough actual words to convey what he/she is trying to say to you. Quite often, the toddler will give up and just start belting anyone and anything in his/her path, or the child will simply melt down in a tantrum of frustration. This, much of the time, is forgivable in a small child; it is NOT forgivable in an adult.
Violent adults are often like this – many violent people are just frustrated at their own lack of ability to understand others and to communicate to others.
This is no one’s fault but their own, by the way. Tiny-vocabulary adults will get little sympathy from me. Life is full of choices, and if they’ve chosen not to expand their horizons with cool new words every day, so be it. They’ve condemned themselves to a life of mediocrity. You can buy a dictionary and a thesaurus at the Dollar Tree.
Every book we read expands our vocabularies, and simultaneously our ability to connect with the universe. Non-readers don’t experience that.
Back in the middle school, almost every. Single. Fight. was started by a non-reader with a small vocabulary. He/she just simply ran out of means of communication, or misinterpreted the other kid’s words, and acted out in the only way he/she could understand: physically. I believe the same is true for adults who don’t know very many words.
I think what annoys me most – at least right this moment – are people whose vocabularies are so limited that they know only one meaning for a word: people with no comprehension of context or multiple definitions depending ON that context.
There are, as we speak, committees of “concerned parents” trying to edit classic children’s and adult literature. They read that “. . . Scrooge had no further intercourse with the spirits. . . .” and assume that Scrooge and the Ghost of Christmas Present had a little thing going on, ifyouknowwhatImean. These people hear the Christmas carol lyrics “. . . the ox and ass kept time. . . .” and simply HAVE to change that dreadful word to “lamb.” They want no part of singing – or hearing their innocent children singing – about donning their gay apparel.
Apparently, such people do not own a dictionary or thesaurus, and have no concept of multiple definitions or context. They hear a word and know only one meaning.
I have little patience with these people, because I do not suffer fools gladly. I don’t think anybody should, in fact. Perhaps, if fools were not catered to so much, people would try not to BE fools.
I am not speaking of English language learners, or SPED, so don’t start with me. I am speaking of people who just simply find it easier to be ignorant of their own language, and force everybody else to dumb down to their level.
This is inexcusably horrible.
Here is a piece of advice I give my students each semester, and now I give it to you: Keep a dictionary in the bathroom. Learn at least one new word in all of its nuances with each twosie. If you’re going to be sitting there for a while, learn several new words.
Keep a thesaurus in there, too, if for no other reason than to be able to describe your awesome pooping experience in words other than “stinky, loud, and big.”
Give your kids a thesaurus apiece and encourage them to fling cool big words at each other. Do not make your kids share one thesaurus; each kid needs his/her own.
And keep your ignorance away from our libraries. They have trouble enough with budgets without having to deal with ignorant gits with tiny linguistic skills.
Also? Shame on you.
I Love Little Pussy, by Jane Taylor
I love little Pussy,
Her coat is so warm;
And if I don’t hurt her
She’ll do me no harm.
So I’ll not pull her tail,
Nor drive her away,
But Pussy and I
Very gently will play;
She shall sit by my side,
And I’ll give her some food;
And Pussy will love me
Because I am good.
I’ll pat little Pussy,
And then she will purr,
And thus show her thanks
For my kindness to her;
I’ll not pinch her ears,
Nor tread on her paw,
Lest I should provoke her
To use her sharp claw;
I never will vex her,
Nor make her displeased,
For Pussy can’t bear
To be worried or teased.
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With your mind out of the gutter, “concerned parents,” that’s a lovely little poem. Too bad these parents have succeeded in having it removed from many elementary anthologies. A lot of “concerned citizens” might want to concern themselves with their own brainwaves before “concerning” themselves with trying to limit anyone else’s.
Vapid, specious pablum-eaters.
My Semi-Pornographic Love Affair With Grammar
Mamacita says: I love a good turn of phrase. I can be swept off my feet by it. I can be swayed and influenced and converted and my vote can be purchased and my virginity can be compromised. . . .um, pretend you didn’t read that part. . . .
Language is power, and a pen is more powerful than any Ollivander wand. I love wit and whimsy and sarcasm. I love a quotation that knocks my socks off. I love WORDS. I love their meanings and their origins. I love how a word and a person both have histories. I love all the things that can be done with words. I love making them into adjectives and adverbs and nouns. I love the “kick” of a strategically placed interjection. I love how the 
choice of a tiny preposition can change the focus of an entire book. I love how a comma can turn a legal contract into the opposite of what a careless reader believes it to be. I love dictionaries. I love to play with a thesaurus. I love the preciseness of grammar, and I love how that very preciseness gives us the ability to be witty, and whimsical, and how it not only lets our imagination soar, but also allows us to share what we discover as we soar. Figurative language depends on grammar for accuracy; metaphor, simile, hyperbole, alliteration, personification, etc., are awesome only if they’re done well.
Did I mention how much I love a clever turn of phrase? Literally and figuratively; I love words. You do understand the difference between literally and figuratively, don’t you? Of course you do. I’m going to assume that you do. Please don’t prove me wrong; it would be quite disillusioning. I’m counting on your refined inferential skills here.
Even more, I love how someone who KNOWS HOW can take that preciseness and twist it, toss it, and tie it into a knot. Good writers are a lot like good athletes; once they know the rules well, those rules can be twisted and turned into even more.
More what? More of everything. There’s nothing in the rule book about Michael Jordan flying through the air like a veritable Peter Pan, but it wasn’t AGAINST the rules, either. Ditto a good writer.
Occasionally, too, a rule needs to be broken in order to make a point. This is true in business, as well, and also in our schools. A leader who doesn’t know when to break a rule is useless, and a writer who doesn’t know when (or how) to break a rule will not be as good a communicator as a writer who understands the language more thoroughly.
I love reading articles about people who are upset because their lack of grammar skills resulted in a lost court case, contract dispute, etc. Item: I am not on the side of the person who has chosen to become an adult without any honed grammar skills. I LOVE it when grammar-ignorant people lose.
One can almost always tell whether a piece of writing is written by someone who knows his/her grammar rules well and has chosen to twist them, or if a piece of writing is written by someone who is just plain ignorant.
Um, I teach writing. I love my job.
What I mean to say is, I LOVE MY JOB.
I hope you can tell.
P.S. Speaking of my vote. . . . I will generally vote for the candidate with the best grammar, my assumption being that the candidate with the best grammar probably studied everything else in more detail and depth, too. People with good grammar have paid attention. That’s been my experience, anyway.
P.P. S. If there are only two candidates, I’ll vote for the one with the better grammar. It’s that three degrees of comparison rule. . . .
P.P.P.S. “Grammar” is spelled with an “-AR,” not an “-ER.” The word is “grammar,” not “grammer.” Unless we are speaking about your grandmother, in which case you should call her whatever she wants you to call her, and spell it however she dictates.
Or unless you are referring to Kelsey Grammer, but we are not discussing adultery in this post.
Quotation Saturday: J.K. Rowling
Mamacita says: J.K. Rowling is my idol. There; I’ve said it and now everybody knows.
She has earned every penny, and she did it with her imagination. I admire this so much – there are no words. No words of my own, anyway.
She has created a world in which those with imagination, creativity, and curiosity can dwell happily, with peers, even; this is often the first time and only place such people CAN go. Rowling has also done more for literacy than any government program. With my own eyes, I have seen semi-literate little boys striving to read a Harry Potter book, because the playground talk about the characters, setting, plots, themes, etc. are so alluring, no kid wants to be without them.
As for parents and “teachers” who think Harry Potter is evil, and who have forbidden them. . . . well, this topic needs its own post, because I firmly believe such people are idiots, and that’s speaking euphemistically. For people who don’t believe in Harry Potter, “euphemistically” means “using nice words when snark is what I really think.” I always assume that people who advocate censorship are stupid, and have tiny vocabularies.
1. It is our choices…that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
2. It takes a great deal of courage to stand up to your enemies, but even more to stand up to your friends.
3. Differences of habit and language are nothing at all if our aims are identical and our hearts are open.
4. It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be.
5. Dark and difficult times lie ahead. Soon we must all face the choice between what is right and what is easy.
6. Age is foolish and forgetful when it underestimates youth.
7. His priority did not seem to be to teach them what he knew, but rather to impress upon them that nothing, not even… knowledge, was foolproof.
8. Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.
7. If you want to know what a man’s like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals.
8. It is my belief… that the truth is generally preferable to lies.
9. Youth cannot know how age thinks and feels. But old men are guilty if they forget what it was to be young.
10. Choosing to live in narrow spaces leads to form of mental agoraphobia and that brings its own terrors. I think the willfully unimaginative see more monsters, they are often more afraid. What is more, those who choose not to empathize enable real monsters. For without ever committing an act of outright evil ourselves, we collude through our own apathy.
11. It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not lived at all. In which case, you’ve failed by default.
12. Personal happiness lies in knowing that life is not a checklist of acquisition or achievement. Your qualifications are not your life.
13. There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction. The moment you are old enough to take the wheel, the responsibility lies with you.
14. We do not need magic to transform our world. We carry all the power we need inside ourselves already. We have the power to imagine better.
15. You will never truly know yourself or the strength of your relationships until both have been tested by adversity.
16. It is a curious thing, Harry, but perhaps those who are best suited to power are those who have never sought it. Those who, like you, have leadership thrust upon them, and take up the mantle because they must, and find to their own surprise that they wear it well.
17. You sort of start thinking anything’s possible if you’ve got enough nerve.
18. You think the dead we loved ever truly leave us? You think that we don’t recall them more clearly than ever in times of great trouble?
19. People find it far easier to forgive others for being wrong than being right.
20. Voldemort himself created his worst enemy, just as tyrants everywhere do! Have you any idea how much tyrants fear the people they oppress? All of them realize that, one day, amongst their many victims, there is sure to be one who rises against them and strikes back!
21. We’ve all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That’s who we really are.
22. We’re all human, aren’t we? Every human life is worth the same, and worth saving.
23. Let us step into the night and pursue that flighty temptress, adventure.
24. . . . you sort of start thinking anything’s possible if you’ve got enough nerve.
25. Is ‘fat’ really the worst thing a human being can be? Is ‘fat’ worse than ‘vindictive’, ‘jealous’, ‘shallow’, ‘vain’, ‘boring’ or ‘cruel’? Not to me. . . I’d rather they were independent, interesting, idealistic, kind, opinionated, original, funny – a thousand things, before ‘thin’. And frankly, I’d rather they didn’t give a gust of stinking chihuahua flatulence whether the woman standing next to them has fleshier knees than they do. Let my girls be Hermiones, rather than Pansy Parkinsons.
26. Books are like mirrors: if a fool looks in, you cannot expect a genius to look out.
27. There’s always room for a story that can transport people to another place.
28. To hurt is as human as to breathe.
29. Love as powerful as your mother’s for you leaves its own mark. To have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever.
30. I really feel that we’re not giving children enough credit for distinguishing what’s right and what’s wrong. I, for one, devoured fairy tales as a little girl. I certainly didn’t believe that kissing frogs would lead me to a prince, or that eating a mysterious apple would poison me, or that with the magical “Bibbity-Bobbity-Boo” I would get a beautiful dress and a pumpkin carriage. I also don’t believe that looking in a mirror and saying “Candyman, Candyman, Candyman” will make some awful serial killer come after me. I believe that many children recognize Harry Potter for what it is, fantasy literature. I’m sure there will always be some that take it too far, but that’s the case with everything. I believe it’s much better to engage in dialog with children to explain the difference between fantasy and reality. Then they are better equipped to deal with people who might have taken it too far.
31. As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.
32. I have always imagined that paradise will be a kind of library.
33. I was set free, because my greatest fear had already been realized, and I was still alive, and I still had a daughter whom I adored, and I had an old typewriter and a big idea. And so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.
34. I’m hoping to do something good in the world!
35. Curiosity is not a sin…. But we should exercise caution with our curiosity… yes, indeed.
26. I always advise children who ask me for tips on being a writer to read as much as they possibly can. Jane Austen gave a young friend the same advice, so I’m in good company there.
27. If she could have done one thing to make absolutely sure that every single person in this school would read your interview, it was banning it!
28. When I was quite young my parents never said books were off limits.
29. Always use the proper name for things. Fear of a name increases fear of the thing itself.
30. Words are, in my not so humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic.
31. Whatever happens to your body, your soul will survive, untouched…
32. It is impossible to manufacture or imitate love.
33. She had a way of seeing the beauty in others, even, and perhaps most especially, when that person couldn’t see it in themselves.
34. No man or woman alive, magical or not, has ever escaped some form of injury, whether physical, mental, or emotional. To hurt is as human as to breathe.
35. I sat and thought for four (delayed train) hours, and all the details bubbled up in my brain, and this scrawny, black-haired, bespectacled boy who didn’t know he was a wizard became more and more real to me.
36. How do you want to be remembered?
~As someone who did the best she could with the talent she had.
37. If you choose to use your status and influence to raise your voice on behalf of those who have no voice; if you choose to identify not only with the powerful, but with the powerless; if you retain the ability to imagine yourself into the lives of those who do not have your advantages, then it will not only be your proud families who celebrate your existence, but thousands and millions of people whose reality you have helped transform for the better. We do not need magic to change the world, we carry all the power we need inside ourselves already: we have the power to imagine better.
38. That which Voldemort does not value, he takes no trouble to comprehend. Of house-elves and children’s tales, of love, loyalty, and innocence, Voldemort knows and understands nothing. Nothing. That they all have a power beyond his own, a power beyond the reach of any magic, is a truth he has never grasped.
39. I am very frustrated by fear of imagination, I don’t think that’s healthy.
40. If you don’t like to read you haven’t found the right book.
41. Just like your mother, you’re unfailingly kind. A trait people never fail to undervalue, I’m afraid.
42. Nothing is more unnerving to the truly conventional than the unashamed misfit!
43. You can have a very intense relationship with fictional characters because they are in your own head.
44. Why had he never appreciated the miracle that he was, brain and nerve and bounding heart?
45. Those who loves us never really leaves us.
46. My parents, both of whom came from impoverished backgrounds and neither of whom had been to college, took the view that my overactive imagination was an amusing personal quirk that would never pay a mortgage, or secure a pension.
47. Always have a vivid imagination, for you never know when you might need it.
48. Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.
49. The truth is always easier than a lie or an evasion – easier to deal with and easier to live with.
50. My readers have to work with me to create the experience. They have to bring their imaginations to the story. No one sees a book in the same way, no one sees the characters the same way. As a reader you imagine them in your own mind. So, together, as author and reader, we have both created the story.
