Quotation Saturday: Books and Reading

quotationsaturdayMamacita says: it would do me no good to try and write an introduction to a list of quotations about books and reading, because I’d probably say something about how I consider non-readers to be substandard citizens and card-carrying members of the Stupid Society, and that wouldn’t be conducive to the upholding of my toplofty position as a serene, accepting, kind old lady who loves everybody.  Oh, shut up, all that snorting is getting on my nerves.  But while I’ve got your attention:  Few things make my heart hurt and my brain scream like a person who doesn’t have TIME to read but miraculously has time to watch TV.

1. A book is the only place in which you can examine a fragile thought without breaking it, or explore an explosive idea without fear it will go off in your face. It is one of the few havens remaining where a man’s mind can get both provocation and privacy. –Edward P. Morgan

2. Anyone who says they have only one life to live must not know how to read a book. –Author Unknown (But I wish it had been me.)

3. A good book should leave you… slightly exhausted at the end. You live several lives while reading it. –William Styron

4. There is a great deal of difference between an eager man who wants to read a book and a tired man who wants a book to read. –G.K. Chesterton

5. If there’s a book you really want to read but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it. –Toni Morrison

6. A good book has no ending. –R.D. Cumming

7. I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves. –~Anna Quindlen

8. I find television to be very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go in the other room and read a book. –Groucho Marx

9. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who can’t read them. –Mark Twain

10. A book reads the better which is our own, and has been so long known to us, that we know the topography of its blots, and dog’s ears, and can trace the dirt in it to having read it at tea with buttered muffins. –Charles Lamb

11. I know every book of mine by its smell, and I have but to put my nose between the pages to be reminded of all sorts of things. –George Robert Gissing

12. Books let us into their souls and lay open to us the secrets of our own. –William Hazlitt

13. My test of a good novel is dreading to begin the last chapter. –Thomas Helm

14. You know you’ve read a good book when you turn the last page and feel a little as if you have lost a friend. –Paul Sweeney

15. It is what you read when you don’t have to that determines what you will be when you can’t help it. –Oscar Wilde

16. Lord! when you sell a man a book you don’t sell just twelve ounces of paper and ink and glue – you sell him a whole new life. Love and friendship and humour and ships at sea by night – there’s all heaven and earth in a book, a real book. –Christopher Morley

17. The smallest bookstore still contains more ideas of worth than have been presented in the entire history of television. –Andrew Ross

18. To sit alone in the lamplight with a book spread out before you, and hold intimate converse with men of unseen generations – such is a pleasure beyond compare. –Kenko Yoshida

19. Fiction reveals truths that reality obscures. –Jessamyn West

20. How many a man has dated a new era in his life from the reading of a book. –Henry David Thoreau, Walden

21. To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. John Aikin

22. Books – the best antidote against the marsh-gas of boredom and vacuity. –George Steiner

23. In reading, a lonely quiet concert is given to our minds; all our mental faculties will be present in this symphonic exaltation. –Stéphane Mallarmé

24. Books are the bees which carry the quickening pollen from one to another mind. –James Russell Lowell

25. Books can be dangerous. The best ones should be labeled “This could change your life.” –Helen Exley

26. There is a wonder in reading Braille that the sighted will never know: to touch words and have them touch you back. –Jim Fiebig

27. This will never be a civilized country until we expend more money for books than we do for chewing gum. –Elbert Hubbard

28. If you resist reading what you disagree with, how will you ever acquire deeper insights into what you believe? The things most worth reading are precisely those that challenge our convictions. –Author Unknown

29. Books are the compasses and telescopes and sextants and charts which other men have prepared to help us navigate the dangerous seas of human life. –Jesse Lee Bennett

30. Until I feared I would lose it, I never loved to read. One does not love breathing. –Harper Lee

31. When you reread a classic you do not see more in the book than you did before; you see more in you than was there before. –Clifton Fadiman

32. There are books so alive that you’re always afraid that while you weren’t reading, the book has gone and changed, has shifted like a river; while you went on living, it went on living too, and like a river moved on and moved away. No one has stepped twice into the same river. But did anyone ever step twice into the same book? –Marina Tsvetaeva

33. Medicine for the soul. –Inscription over the door of the Library at Thebes

34. “Tell me what you read and I’ll tell you who you are” is true enough, but I’d know you better if you told me what you reread. –François Mauriac

35. Children don’t read to find their identity, to free themselves from guilt, to quench the thirst for rebellion or to get rid of alienation. They have no use for psychology…. They still believe in God, the family, angels, devils, witches, goblins, logic, clarity, punctuation, and other such obsolete stuff…. When a book is boring, they yawn openly. They don’t expect their writer to redeem humanity, but leave to adults such childish illusions. –Isaac Bashevis Singer

36. A house without books is like a room without windows. –Heinrich Mann

37. Never judge a book by its movie. –J.W. Eagan

38. To acquire the habit of reading is to construct for yourself a refuge from almost all the miseries of life. –W. Somerset Maugham

39. There is no such thing as a moral or immoral book; books are well written or badly written. –Oscar Wilde

40. Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body. It is wholesome and bracing for the mind to have its faculties kept on the stretch. –Augustus Hare

41. It often requires more courage to read some books than it does to fight a battle. –Sutton Elbert Griggs

42. Books are delightful society. If you go into a room and find it full of books – even without taking them from the shelves they seem to speak to you, to bid you welcome. –William Ewart Gladstone

43. If one cannot enjoy reading a book over and over again, there is no use in reading it at all. — Oscar Wilde

44. Today a reader, tomorrow a leader. –Margaret Fuller

45. We read to know we are not alone. — C.S. Lewis

46. Every man who knows how to read has it in his power to magnify himself, to multiply the ways in which he exists, to make his life full, significant and interesting. –Aldous Huxley

47. To learn to read is to light a fire; every syllable that is spelled out is a spark. –Victor Hugo

48. Reading is a discount ticket to everywhere. — Mary Schmich

49. Reading is a means of thinking with another person’s mind; it forces you to stretch your own. — Charles Scribner, Jr.

50. Reading makes immigrants of us all. It takes us away from home, but more important, it finds homes for us everywhere. — Jean Rhys

51. In a very real sense, people who have read good literature have lived more than people who cannot or will not read. — S. I. Hayakawa

52. Every reader, if he has a strong mind, reads himself into the book, and amalgamates his thoughts with those of the author. — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

53. You don’t have to burn books to destroy a culture. Just get people to stop reading them. — Ray Bradbury

54. Beware of the man of one book. –Thomas Aquinas

55. The failure to read good books both enfeebles the vision and strengthens our most fatal tendency–the belief that the here and now is all there is. — Allan Bloom

56. I have always imagined that Paradise will be a kind of library. — Jorge Luis Borges

57. There are worse crimes than burning books. One of them is not reading them. –Joseph Brodsky

58. Children are made readers on the laps of their parents. — Emilie Buchwald

59. There is no substitute for books in the life of a child. — Mary Ellen Chase

60. I often feel sorry for people who don’t read good books; they are missing a chance to lead an extra life. — Scott Corbett

Bonus: I used to walk to school with my nose buried in a book. — Coolio

Poetry Friday: Jean Kerr Taught Me To Love Poetry

poetryfridaybuttonMamacita says:  I first encountered Gerard Manley Hopkins’  Spring and Fall and Robert Burns’ John Anderson, My Jo in a college course.  Unfortunately, the professor was a jaded, bored, boring man who considered himself far too important to be teaching a group of eager undergrads, and who turned every selection into a joke.  Both poems, he taught us, were about old people who were about to die.  No biggie, that. Death.  Common theme.  Moving right along. . . .

A lot of treasure went undiscovered that semester, thanks to him.  He knew there was gold in that book and even more gold seated in the room, but he did not bestir himself to go a’digging for it.  Too much trouble.  He held the key to a treasure chest and did not bother to use it.  Never once did he tell us that poetry was awesome and fantastic and heartbreaking and thrilling and bloody and pathetic and sweet and sour and bitter and lusty and sexy and mind-boggling and dirty and just plain wonderful unless it wasn’t.

A few years later, I encountered this poem again, in Jean Kerr’s How I Got To Be Perfect.  Jean and her husband Walter, upon realizing – with horror – that while their kids seemed to know an fea6729fd7a0847d7ef7c010l_sl500_aa240_awful lot about sports and movies and fun, not one of their kids knew anything about poetry, instituted “Culture Night,” wherein each child had to memorize a poem and recite it to the family once a week.  It went over like a ton of bricks the first few times, and then took off like a rocket as the boys gradually gained an understanding and appreciation of form, rhyme, meter, patterns, theme, and inner meanings. (The Common Room has a fantastic post about Jean and Walter Kerr’s “Culture Hour.” I highly recommend that y’all go read it.)

One night, after Jean’s son Colin had finished his recitation of  John Anderson, My Jo,, Jean burst into tears. The boy said to her, “Mom, it is Margaret you mourn for.”  It was true.

I cannot think of either poem now, without tears.  The good kind.  I teach my students that both poems are, first and foremost, about love: the kind of love that lasts forever.

John Anderson, My Jo, by Robert Burns

JOHN ANDERSON, my jo, John,
When we were first acquent,
Your locks were like the raven,
Your bonnie brow was brent;
But now your brow is beld, John,
Your locks are like the snow;
But blessings on your frosty pow,
John Anderson, my jo!

John Anderson, my jo, John,
We clamb the hill tegither;
And monie a canty day, John,
We’ve had wi’ ane anither:
Now we maun totter down, John,
But hand in hand we’ll go,
And sleep thegither at the foot,
John Anderson, my jo.

Spring and Fall, by Gerard Manley Hopkins

Margaret, are you grieving
Over Goldengrove unleaving?
Leaves, like the things of man, you
With your fresh thoughts care for, can you?
Ah! as the heart grows older
It will come to such sights colder
By and by, nor spare a sigh
Though worlds of wanwood leafmeal lie;
And yet you will weep and know why.
Now no matter, child, the name:
Sorrow’s springs are the same.
Nor mouth had, no nor mind, expressed
What héart héard of, ghóst guéssed:
It is the blight man was born for,
It is Margaret you mourn for.

Thank you, Jean Kerr, for teaching me that poetry rocks. The university couldn’t be arsed to do it.

I Agree With Mr. Horse. We Don't Like It.

Mamacita says:  part of this post is from another post that I deleted before I wrote down the date.  I’m so tech savvy and organized.

This semester, I will have to say that most of my students have been exceptionally fine.  Lovely, hard-working, sincere people who genuinely want to improve themselves, so they can improve their job status, so they can improve their way of life, so their children’s lives will be improved.

Throughout my career, I have always loved and respected most of my students, and deeply resented the fact that the majority of the perks and money and attention and programs seem to go to the students who least deserve them, while those who most deserve them are expected to get by on their own.  I will always resent this fact.  The fact that it’s a fact is completely unacceptable to me, and I will work until I die to get this unreasonable fact changed.  I doubt this will happen in my lifetime, however, so I am counting on YOU to work hard to change it, too.  The lowest common denominator does NOT deserve the highest amount of praise, programs, and cash.

I never forget any of my students, but there are always a handful of students I don’t want to lose track of, either.  There are always students who are too good to lose.   I followed my middle school students through high school and college (not the creepy stalking follow: the interested concerned follow)  and often went to their weddings, graduations, etc.  Now, while some of my students are just out of high school, and, indeed, some of them are the same students I had back in the middle school, most of my students are approximately my age or older, and after I’m finished being their professor, sometimes I want to be their friend.

You know, I can close my eyes and see group after group of students.  I remember where they sat.  I remember things they said.  I remember essays they wrote.  I remember their circumstances.  I can remember positive things about most of them.  Others, well, sometimes I have to try harder to think of something positive.  🙂

I don’t think it’s enough for a teacher to be smart and knowledgeable about his/her subject.  Yes, those things are important, but they’re not enough.

To be a good and effective teacher, I think a person must be smart, knowledgeable, and genuinely interested in the students.  As a professor, I am bound by certain rules, but I am not imprisoned by them.  If a person in authority does not know when and how to bend a rule, that person has no business having authority.

Because, you see, there are times to be inflexible, and there are times to make allowances.  Knowing the difference can be the difference between a teacher and a machine.  One has a mind and a heart, and the other can only spew out what’s been programmed into it.  I have no desire to be (or have, for that matter) a bread machine.  I prefer to get my hands dirty and my fingernails crusty  (Eat up. Yum.)

One of my fears is that our drilled, re-drilled, prepped, re-prepped, tested, and re-tested students are going to become so out of practice and out of synch and out of even simple acquaintance with their minds and hearts, that they’ll turn into machines.  Even now, our kids are pretty good at making their marks heavy and dark with a #2 pencil, but not so good on understanding WHY a certain answer is correct and another isn’t.  Without the understanding, what do we really have?

We have machines.  Bewitched, Bothered Machines,  bullies, and a lot of bewilderment.

To quote Mr. Horse:  I don’t like it.  No, sir, I don’t like it at all.

(WHAT?  You don’t know Mr. Horse?  This is unacceptable.  Go find out, right NOW!)

Knowledge is knowledge.

Do a little dance, make a little rum, Italian Ice! Italian Ice!

Mamacita says:  I’m pretty much living on Diet Coke. But that’s okay, because, in the words of Credence Clearwater Revival: There’s a bathroom on the right.

You know how you always think you can drive well even though you’re so tired, you’re almost comatose? Yeah, key word “think.” I actually frightened myself driving home this afternoon. I never really dozed off, but several times I caught myself wondering how in the world I got wherever I was when I became aware of where I was. Not good. Not good at all. I’m listening to Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix on cd – Jim Dale bloody ROCKS – and it helps even more than my usual music blasting out of the cd player at mega-decibels.  When CD #4 was over, #5 began, and it was full of music.  When I’m tired, I hear lyrics as mondegreens.

The groggy versions of lyrics are always a hoot. I wasn’t so sleepy that I couldn’t appreciate the inadvertant humor; and my singing voice is always good for a laugh. Groggy mondegreens are one of my specialties.

Hold me closer, Tony Danza. . . Count the head lice on the highway. Elton John keeps me alert.

I have no cycle of sleeping. I have no established sleep patterns. Mom tells me that even as a baby I was up all night and slept all day, WHEN I slept. She tried her best to make me conform to a typical baby schedule but it didn’t take. I have one sister and a brother who are just like me in that respect. Another sister is more the conforming type and goes to bed early.

People who go to bed early miss so much. . . .

Like going to work bleary and disoriented, for one thing. It wears off once I’m out of the house (or so they tell me) but if I carry it to extremes it backfires on me. Kind of like today.

When I was younger I could carry it off every time, but now that I’m no spring chicken, it’s harder to bounce back.

Does this mean I should try to be more conforming and go to bed early? And wear house slippers and robes, and stop thinking cold pizza is a good nutritious breakfast? And buy a raincoat? And start watching shows like Everybody Constantly Whines Everybody Loves Raymond? and buy practical Christmas gifts for people? And put little dishes of hard candy all over the house?  And buy some elastic-waist jeans?  Because I don’t think I can handle any of those things yet.

I’ll love and care and nurture you till the cows come home, but you’ll have to watch “Aqua Teen Hunger Force” and “MASH” and maybe a few Adult Swim’s, and Family Guy,  Scrubs, and Ugly Betty, and eat pizza and cheeseburgers and listen to some pretty good music, and watch movies at 3 a.m. . WHEN I’m in the mood to watch tv, which isn’t very often because most of it annoys me. And just plain stinks. Also, the tv is downstairs in the family room and I’m lazy. We’ll watch the movies in the kitchen, while we make Rice Krispie Treats (don’t forget the peanut butter) and No-Bake cookies.

Oh, I can act grownup if I have to, and of course for much of the day I have to. But I dun like it noway.

At what age are we supposed to start thinking Spencer Gifts is stupid and start hanging out at Sears? Because, it hasn’t happened yet and I’m not looking forward to it.

I’ve been waiting for an awfully long time for the elegance and maturity, wit and style, and all the accouterments of adulthood to become important to me. I’m still waiting. I have a horrible suspicion that they’re not coming, that they’ve all seen me and are hiding in terror behind a light pole in the parking lot of Cheeseburgers In Paradise, lest I accost them and take them home.

I am not really interested in most of the accouterments of adulthood. They seem so boring. And isn’t that where the word ‘coot’ comes from? As in “Check out the old coot with all those cootish accouterments?”

I agree with Queen: I sometimes wish I’d never been boiled in oil.

I refuse to become an old coot, even though I’m already one. Not me.

I’m blotto and bravado/I’m a scarecrow and a Beatle. I’m not a coot. Such Nirvana.

Well, maybe sometimes.

I might go to bed tonight. Possibly even before midnight. Because, you know, the old gray mare, she ain’t what she used to be.

Blinded by the light. Wrapped up like a douche another rumor ’bout the night.

Sweet dreams, Manfred.

Quotation Saturday: Honor

quotationsaturdayMamacita says:  I’m tired of reading about dishonor.  Today’s Quotation Saturday focuses on HONOR – a trait many people have turned their backs on in favor of . . . other, more selfish and self-serving traits.

1. Honor isn’t about making the right choices. It’s about dealing with the consequences. –Midori Koto

2. Rather fail with honor than succeed by fraud. — Sophocles

3. He has honor if he holds himself to an ideal of conduct though it is inconvenient, unprofitable, or dangerous to do so. –Walter Lippman

4. Nobody can acquire honor by doing what is wrong. — Thomas Jefferson

5. The most tragic thing in the world is a man of genius who is not a man of honor. –George Bernard Shaw

6. Dignity does not consist in possessing honors, but in deserving them. –Aristotle

7. The greatest way to live with honor in this world is to be what we pretend to be. — Socrates

8. One of the common failings among honorable people is a failure to appreciate how thoroughly dishonorable some other people can be, and how dangerous it is to trust them. –Thomas Sowell

9. Honor is simply the morality of superior men. –H.L. Mencken

10. There are people who observe the rules of honor as we observe the stars: from a distance. –Victor Hugo

11. No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave. –Calvin Coolidge

12. Those who give, hoping to be rewarded with honor, are not giving, they are bargaining. –Philo Judaeus

13. You meet the warrior when in battle, but it is not until victory that you meet the gentleman. — Jacinto Benavente

14. Be honorable yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people. — Wendell L. Willkie

15. Honor sinks where commerce long prevails. — Oliver Goldsmith

16. The difference between a moral man and a man of honor is that the latter regrets a discreditable act, even when it has worked and he has not been caught. –H.L. Mencken

17. Don’t look for more honor than your learning merits. — Jewish proverb

18. Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards. — Lois McMaster Bujold

19. Reputation is what other people know about you. Honor is what you know about yourself. — Lois McMaster Bujold

20. The louder he talked of his honor, the faster we counted our spoons. –Ralph Waldo Emerson

21. Show me the man you honor, and I will know what kind of man you are. –Thomas
Carlyle

22. You should consider an employment change before you consider selling out. –Phillip C. McGraw

23. It is better to deserve honors and not have them than to have them and not deserve them. –Mark Twain

24. Let no man turn aside, ever so slightly, from the broad path of honor, on the plausible pretence that he is justified by the goodness of his end. All good ends can be worked out by good means. –Charles Dickens

25. It is not titles that honor men, but men that honor titles. –Niccolo Machiavelli

26. A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. –George Bernard Shaw

27. The sense of honour is of so fine and delicate a nature, that it is only to be met with in minds which are naturally noble, or in such as have been cultivated by good examples, or a refined education. –Joseph Addison

28. Honor is not the exclusive property of any political party. –Herbert Hoover

29. Let us honor if we can the vertical man, though we value none but the horizontal one. –W.H. Auden

30. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. –C.S. Lewis

31. Fame is something that must be won. Honor is something that must not be lost. –Arthur Schopenhauer

32. Better not be at all than not be noble. –Alfred, Lord Tennyson

33. He who has lost honour can lose nothing more. –Publilius Syrus

34. Society’s demands for moral authority and character increase as the importance of the position increases. –John Adams

35. Outside show is a poor substitute for inner worth. –Aesop

36. Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect.–Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

37. Open discussion of many major public questions has for some time now been taboo. We can’t open our mouths without being denounced as racists, misogynists, supremacists, imperialists or fascists. As for the media, they stand ready to trash anyone so designated. –Saul Bellow

38. Your representative owes you, not his industry only, but his judgment; and he betrays, instead of serving you, if he sacrifices it to your opinion. –Edmund Burke

39. Laws control the lesser man. Right conduct controls the greater one. –Chinese proverb

40. While the people have property, arms in their hands, and only a spark of noble spirit, the most corrupt Congress must be mad to form any project of tyranny. –Rev. Nicholas Collin

41. To be nobody but yourself — in a world which is doing it’s best, night and day, to make you like everybody else — means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting. –e.e. cummings

42. The deterioration of every government begins with the decay of the principles on which it was founded. –C. L. De Montesquieu

43. The life of the nation is secure only while the nation is honest, truthful, and virtuous. –Frederick Douglass

44. Any time we deny any citizen the full exercise of his constitutional rights, we are weakening our own claim to them. –Dwight D. Eisenhower

45. We will all be better citizens when voting records of our Congressmen are followed as carefully as scores of pro-football games. –Lou Erickson

46. He does not believe, that does not live according to his belief. –Dr. Thomas Fuller

47. The things that will destroy us are: politics without principle; pleasure without conscience; wealth without work; knowledge without character; business without morality; science without humanity; and worship without sacrifice. –Gandhi

48. Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being. –Goethe

49. The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good. –Dr. Samuel Johnson

50. It is not necessary that whilst I live I live happily; but it is necessary that so long as I live I should live honourably. –Kant

51. Nearly all men can withstand adversity; if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.–Abraham Lincoln

52. When a man who is honestly mistaken hears the truth, he will either quit being mistaken or cease to be honest. –Abraham Lincoln

53. None can love freedom but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license, which never hath more scope than under tyrants. — John Milton

54. There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences. –P.J. O’Rourke

55. To announce that there must be no criticism of the President, or that we are to stand by the President, right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public. –Theodore Roosevelt

56. The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it. — Gen. H. Norman Schwartzkopf

57. We know what a person thinks, not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions. –Isaac Bashevis Singer

58. We must not allow ourselves to become like the system we oppose. We cannot afford to use methods of which we will be ashamed when we look back, when we say, ‘…we shouldn’t have done that.’ We must remember, my friends, that we have been given a wonderful cause. The cause of freedom! And you and I must be those who will walk with heads held high. We will say, ‘We used methods that can stand the harsh scrutiny of history.’ –Bishop Desmond Tutu

59. There is such thing as a nation being so right it does not need to convince others by force that it is right. –Woodrow Wilson

60. When a virtuous man is raised, it brings gladness to his friends, grief to his enemies, and glory to his posterity.–Ben Jonson

Etc. Again, I stop only because I force myself to stop.

Other people can always say “it” so much better than I could. I am swept off my feet by a good turn of phrase.

Honor. Wouldn’t it be nice if it came back into style?